Man Flu in da House: SEND VODKA

by | Nov 17, 2015 | Little (Big) Bren, Little Angie, Little Woes | 0 comments

I deeply offended a friend once whilst trying to give her a compliment. 

She was studying to be a nurse and as most (all?) student nurses do, she was working in a nursing home with elderly patients. She was talking about the nature of her work and I commented that I didn't know how she could deal with the bodily fluids. 

She took this very badly.

"I don't just wipe old people's arses," she retorted, "These are real people who are often sad and lonely. It's very emotional work."

"Exactly!" I replied. "And I'm saying I couldn't even do the Nursing 101 stuff, let alone deal with the more complex aspects of working with human beings. I'm saying I admire how you can deal with the very basics of nursing – blood, piss, vomit, shit. I would not be capable of that."

She remained unconvinced, believed that I was reducing the important work she did to being an adult diaper changer.

The point is, I know it takes a special kind of person to be able to manage another human being at their most vulnerable. Nursing is an extremely difficult job and though their expertise runs far deeper than bodily fluids, how they can turn up to work each day knowing that they may encounter a real and actual shitstorm – and not flinch – earns them much respect in my eyes.

Empathetic – yes. Squeamish – no.

And that's how I knew I would never be a nurse.

Why am I talking about nurses? Apart from the fact that they're incredible and completely undervalued.

This is why:

ManFluu

That's right. Bren is sick.

Somebody shoot a tranq dart into my butt because I can't go on this way.

In my defence, for the last two weeks, all the kids have been unwell, two of them with ear infections. When it comes to the kids, my nursing game is reasonably strong. Their bodily fluids are like my bodily fluids. Gross, sure, but this is how we mothers (and possibly fathers) are wired. If we weren't wired this way, our communities would be overrun by sickly, snot-nosed children roaming the streets in fevered delirium, huddling together under bridges at night, one crusty handkerchief being shared amongst them all. "I had my own bedroom," one would lament softly, the others nodding and vomiting in solidarity.

But no! I would never cast my sick child out, damning them to a life of bridge-huddling and communal hankies. No!

But Bren can go live under that bridge. He can go and live there and stay living there until such time as any illness in his body has been sufficiently extinguished, killed dead, with fire if necessary.

Yesterday he was (allegedly) really poorly. He took himself to the doctors and I told him, I said, "If your ear isn't hurting, then you don't have an ear infection, and unless you have an ear infection, there's no way they'll give you antibiotics."

He came home with a box of penicilliin. Oh man, did that chap my ass.

So he put himself (smugly) to bed and I, like some fucking Florence Nightingale person, filled up his water bottle and took it in to him. I took his water bottle, his teeming with germs, germy water bottle and CLEANED IT with BOILING HOT WATER and REFILLED IT with FRESH, COOL WATER. This involved having to TOUCH his germ bottle PHYSICALLY with my OWN HANDS. PHYSICALLY

When I entered the bedroom, it smelt of sickness and I had to hold my breath and also open a window. He was under the doona, shivering, but the atmosphere was thick with bacterial revoltingness and actually, I'm pretty sure I did him a favour by letting some fresh air in, air that he hadn't been breathing into his diseased lungs and then out again through his infectious mouth.

Get Well

Oh, I know. It's cruel of me – particularly considering that when I am sick, Bren is the most compassionate and attentive nurse ever. But I have a sunny disposition, a perky bum bum, make incredible chocolate hedgehog AND can memorise raps by Dizzee Rascal that would BLOW. YOUR. MIND. All I'm saying is, you can't have everything.

Please pray for me. I mean Bren. I mean me.

Hello friends

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I’m Angie!  I mum. I write. I wife. My husband would say this is the correct order.  He’s so neeeedy. I live with my family in Melbourne, Australia, where I complain about the weather for 90% of the year – but I can’t imagine living anywhere else. Except maybe in Lake Como, waving to my neighbours George and Amal each morning.

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